부모와 청소년 자녀의 성별에 따른 지지적.통제적 양육행동: 5개국 비교 연구

The Gendered Pattern of Parental Support and Control over Adolescent Children: A Comparative Analysis

  • 발행 : 2008.08.25

초록

본 연구에서는 한국, 일본, 미국, 독일, 스웨덴 등 5개국 청소년 자녀에 대한 부모의 지지와 통제가 부모 및 자녀의 성별에 따라 어떻게 다를 수 있는지를 분석하였다. 본 연구는 아버지보다 어머니가 청소년 자녀에게 더 지지적이고 덜 통제적이며, 아들보다 딸에게 더 지지적이고 덜 통제적이어서, 모녀관계에서 지지적 특성이 가장 강하고 부자관계에서 통제적인 특성이 가장 강하게 나타날 것이라는 가설로부터 시작한다. 이 연구를 위해서 한국청소년개발원이 2006년에 실시한 5개국 설문조사자료를 사용한 분석이 이루어졌다. 분석 결과, 한국사례에 대해서는 모든 가설이 지지되었으며, 다른 국가의 경우는 부분적으로 지지되었다. 5개국 모두에서 어머니는 아버지보다 더 지지적인 것으로 확인되었다. 대부분의 국가에서 부모가 아들보다 딸에 대해서 더 지지적인 것으로 나타나기는 하였으나, 자녀 성별의 효과는 부모 성별의 효과만큼 뚜렷하지는 않았다. 통제적 행동의 경우는 한국과 미국에서만 성별 효과가 나타났다.

This study analyses the effect of gender on the support and control dimension of the relationship between adolescent children and their parents in 5 countries - Korea, Japan, U.S., Germany, and Sweden. This study predicts that mothers are more supportive and less controlling towards their children than fathers; that parents are more supportive towards their daughters than sons; and that supportive relationship is most pronounced in mother-daughter relations while controlling relationship is pronounced in father-son relations. We used the 2006 multi-national survey data collected by the National Youth Policy Institute for the analysis, selecting the cases in which the youth respondents were born between 1988 and 1993 and were living with both biological parents. All three hypotheses are supported in Korean cases. In the cases of the other nations, the hypotheses are only partially supported. In all the 5 nations, mothers are more supportive towards their children than are fathers. While parents are more supportive towards daughters than towards sons in most countries, the impact of children's gender in producing differences in parental behavior is less profound than the impact of parent's gender. Gender affects the control dimension of the relationship only in Korea and U.S.

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