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중년기 기독교인을 위한 목회상담과 현실치료의통합

Integration of Pastoral Counseling and Reality Therapy for Middle-aged Christian

  • 김현숙 (광신대학교 상담심리치료학과, 정서코칭 상담교육원) ;
  • 김현진 (광신대학교 지역사회서비스 사업단, 상담심리 치료학과)
  • 투고 : 2022.10.25
  • 심사 : 2022.11.08
  • 발행 : 2022.11.30

초록

중년기는 현재 자신의 위치에서 삶을 돌아보고 평가를 하게 되는 중요한 시기이다. 중년기는 성취에 대한 만족감과, 현실과 기대에 대한 위기감이 공존하는 양면성이 있다. 위기냐 기회냐의 전환기 과정에서 일어나는 문제와 갈등의 최소화를 위한 중년기 목회상담 연구는 의의 있는 일이다. 목회상담은 성경적 원리에 입각하여 지금-여기 현존 하시는 하나님과의 사실적 만남을 기본 전제로 내담자의 요구와 발달과제를 의미 있는 삶으로 재생산이 되도록 도울 수 있어야 한다. 이에 문헌 고찰을 통하여 중년기 연구의 선구자인 융, 에릭슨, 레빈슨의 중년기 발달적 견해를 살펴 보았다. 중년기 내담자들의 욕구와 위기감을 무조건적으로 말씀과 기도로 헤쳐나가라고 하는 것은 무리가 있다. 이러한 관점에서 목회상담과 현실치료의 통합은 자신이 선택한 실현 가능한 현실적 행동과 책임을 통해 내적 대화와 행동의 어우러짐이 함께 출발하도록 할 때 활용도가 매우 높다고 본다. 현실치료의 자신에 대한 통찰과 구체적 상담 방법은 목회상담과의 통합을 통해 새로운 상담유형을 제시할 수 있다. 따라서 본 연구는 현실치료의 이론적 배경과 특징을 살펴본 후 목회상담과 현실치료의 만남을 통해 중년기 위기를 극복하는데 일조하는 의미가 있다.

Midlife is a critical time when people look back on their life and evaluate it from current state. In middle age, there is a satisfaction with achievement and a sense of crisis between reality and expectation. Research on pastoral counseling in the middle age to minimize problems and conflicts that occur in the transition period of crisis or opportunity is meaningful. Based on biblical principles, pastoral counseling should be able to help the client's needs and development tasks to be reproduced into a meaningful life on the basic premise of a realistic meeting with God. Therefore, through a literature review, the developmental views of Jung, Ericsson, Levinson, and the pioneers of middle-aged research, were examined. From this realistic point of view, the integration of pastoral counseling and reality therapy is considered to be very useful by allowing the harmony of internal dialogue and behavior to start together through the feasible realistic behavior and responsibility of one's choice. Insights on oneself and specific counseling methods of realistic therapy will present a new type of counseling through integration with pastoral counseling. Therefore after examining the theoretical background and characteristics of reality therapy, we intend to help overcome the middle-aged crisis through the meeting pastoral counseling and reality therapy.

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